I’ve gotten myself into a problem. It began when I started seeing a guy that is a basketball player. He’s from another city and we met through a dating website.
From the jump we hit it off and began being intimate. The only issue was that he was in a serious relationship with his long-time girlfriend.
He told me about how much he didn’t want to be with her and how he felt trapped, and how good it made him feel to make love to me. This has been going on for the last 7 years, and to this day he is still with his girlfriend.
He told me that regardless of what happens that he doesn’t want her to suffer and be heart-broken because of his choices. Basically, in the last couple of years I’ve found out that he was sleeping with other women too, not only in his city, but in the cities he travels to when he plays basketball.
Even though we never made our relationship official, I fell hard for him, and it makes me jealous knowing that he still continues to sleep with other women.
Alright, so here is my predicament … I’m pregnant! I’m only a few weeks now, but I don’t know if the best choice would be to keep it.
As soon as I told him I was pregnant he became distant and didn’t want to discuss it. I care about him a lot and I don’t want what we have to be tarnished because I brought a baby into this world that he doesn’t want. Please Help!