If you catch the bad marriage signs early, you can still make a full recovery. You know you've got relationship work to do if you notice the following;
The money fights are fierce.
Most people think these arguments are just about spending and saving, but they're really about our emotional relationships with money. Find a middle ground that leaves you both content with the solution."
A lot of people think that being irritated here and there is normal in marriage. In reality, constant bickering is a warning sign that you're inadvertently stepping on each other's toes, brushing over big issues that matter to you, or losing faith in each other. This can go on for years before a couple notices that they're truly unhappy.
The most authentic couples acknowledge their issues. But often, people don't want to start a fight, so they skirt around something that bothers them. You might think it's silly to tell your husband that it drives you crazy when he leaves dirty dishes in the sink, but since that's a behavior he can change, you're doing the relationship no favors by ignoring it. You need to choose your battles, but minimizing conflict also minimizes intimacy, and you're more likely to become bitter if you allow that to happen."
Many couples just walk away after a spat, hoping the negative feelings will settle. It's important to deliberately re-approach your partner to make sure there's no lasting damage. All you have to do is acknowledge, 'Okay, we disagree about this, but we're fine. I still love you.'"