Our reader cannot bear to confront her husband about him visiting gay porn websites because she is worried about what he will say. Here's what she has to say:
"Hello, all. I've been married to my husband for seven years and we have two kids. We’ve been together for 10 years, and I thought I knew him inside-out. We have a great marriage, so what I’ve discovered feels like a bomb has gone off.
He has an expensive new laptop that he doesn’t really like me using, so I always use our old one. I hardly ever go online and I don’t have Facebook or anything like that.
I went on his new laptop the other day, just to have a go, and I was horrified to discover he’s been visiting gay porn sites.
I was completely gobsmacked, but I haven’t confronted him simply because I can’t bear to hear what he has to say for himself.
I’m now torturing myself that he’s been gay all along and that our marriage and our whole life is a sham. What should I do?"