I'm engaged to a really nice guy that I love so much but I'm contemplating calling off the engagement because of my hatred towards his family.
He's from one of the known rich families in Lagos and they are of the worst breed.
Like that isn't enough they are so domineering and controlling always interfering in matters that don't concern them. Its so bad that they tell their children what to do, they make their decisions for them and their matriarch is the opinion of the family. Whatever she says is final. No one dare question her decisions or argues with her.
Its sad enough that I barely have a say in anything, now they've involved my family too. My future mother-in-law has summoned my father to her home on several occasions, asking him the most annoying and uncalled for questions.
She even went ahead to ask their family doctor to examine me with the doctor asking me how many men I've been with in the past and if I've ever had an abortion.
To add to it my fiance's sister told me I have to quit my job after I marry into their family.
Everything I do is always questioned, even to the clothes I wear. For someone who is not yet married into the family and I'm already having panic attacks.
I'm in love with this guy but I don't no if I can continue with this treatments from his family. Who knows what they would do when their son finally marries me.
Should I walk away or is there a way to handle such a family if I go ahead with the wedding? Please help me.