My real name is Uju , I married 17yrs ago. Years of suffering, fasting, praying, mocking, crying, taking tablet and injection both local and native ones.
I got married at the age of 17 that was 1996, I was a virgin then and I couldn't proceed for further education and that's was the same year I lost my brave daddy. I married only son wit 8sisters,I was warmly welcome to the family. Within a year, I couldn't conceive we both went to hospital, after running some test I was told that we are both medically okay, but can't still conceive. We are praying to God, I had been to more than 50 churches, hospital etc but nothing happen.
After 6yrs of waiting my husband sisters started cursing me, calling me all sorts of name that am a witch, evil to their family, calling me barren woman, that am a man living inside woman. Even my lovely mother in-law turned against me, I was asked to go back to my father’s house with my spirit of barrenness but my hubby refused and am not ready to leave him.
I went to church one day before I came back my own properties was outside both my husband sisters standing closer to my loads. I was so much humiliated, I was beaten to coma, they poured me bucket of water calling me evil child, ashawo, u want to tie my brother down, u want our family name to vanish. Thank God for my father in-law who came back, he consoled me and even blessed me that I must bear children and I claimed it. I cried to God every morning and night asking him to bless my marriage even with one child either male of female at least to prove to my sisters in law that am not a man but I believe God will still do it.
In the same year I lost my father in law, I wept I was hoping one day he will carried my children but God know why.my journey of rejection started, again, my mother in law humiliated me in the day of the burial, that her husband died without seeing his only son children, that I will leave d house for another woman to enter. I cried that day, I was asking God why me? What have I done?. i married my husband as a virgin then why am I passing through dis. After 5days of the burial my hubby change, I nearly died if not God was by side. My darling, my only hope of living, my first love abandoned me to my fate but I still love him and refused to go.
He got married, to another lady, d lady was older than me and a friend to my husband’s sisters. I was like a maid to them and as a good Christian I vowed not to go back to my father house. Within 3months my husband’s 2nd wife took inn, I swear I was happy at least my husband sisters and my mother-in-law will be happy. My mate (2nd wife) was like a God to them, I was humiliated several times by them, because of her pregnancy. After some months she delivered a baby girl through CS , everybody was happy including me ,I was not allowed to carry the child. After 2 years she had d second child a baby girl through CS again but my sisters in laws are not too happy after d second child even my hubby too. Am still praying to God about my own too, last month I saw one of my friend who has been married for 12yrs with a child, I was surprise and I keep, asking her how come till she told me what happened.
She went to bridge clinic and God answered her prayer, she did IN- VITRO FERTILIZATION(IVF) means fertilisation of the woman's egg with the husband's sperm out of the body. Subsequently, the embryos are transferred through the cervix into the womb for continued development and hopefully a pregnancy. i was so happy at least God will still bless me, through bridge clinic, I went to their clinic, when I got home I was very happy and I discuss d issue about d clinic but my hubby don't want to hear anything about my inability to conceive again, infact he told me that he don't have money .am 34yrs old now and into small business, i need a child of my own, I want to be a mother.
Am calling all Nigerians to help me out go through dis IVF, to break d yoke of 17yrs barrenness from me, to help me with support, cash and prayers. Don't give me cash but to be in the bridge clinic to see the doctor by yourself. I can't afford the money for the IVF, even if is one child am okay.
Put a smile on my face again and God will never let you down, no amount is small.