How do you show someone that you feel that you are special and you mean the world to them? It's human nature to feel special when someone is paying attention to you. And to share with someone what matters to them most also matters to you.
Focus on the time spent on the endeavor and fore-thought that really captures a woman's heart.
Early in a relationship, there is timing to it all. Men who do too much too soon appear needy and unattractive. It's important to find out what your woman/partner likes and follow through on that knowledge.
For instance, you find out that a woman you started dating loves a certain type of music such as Jazz. A good follow through would be to suggest going to a jazz club for a date or a jazz concert or buying her a CD (if she has a CD player) of one of her favorite Jazz groups.
You want to be careful not to appear too 'over the top'. Imagine you meet a woman for dinner and bring her a big bouquet of flowers. You might think this is a romantic gesture, but she, hovewer, would probably be uncomfortable: you don't know each other too well yet, and it is a public place where people assume you're a couple.
So, you should find out what is appropriate given the circumstances.
When you show the right attention, then the woman in your life will be responsive to you and will either start to connect with you or will connect more fully with you over time. You will both feel more fulfilled in your relationship.
What has worked best for you to connect with your love interest? What relationship advice can you share about the mistakes have you learned from? Ladies, what would you want the men to know about you?