I Had an affair after two years of hell, now I think my wife is getting her own back.
I’m 36 and my wife is 34. I lost my job and our home and my wife went off sex, all in quick succession five years ago. I went through depression and it was such a bad time that I had to have something, so I cheated on her for a year.
It felt so wrong that I tried to take my own life. I came clean to my wife in the end and told her about the affair.
We’ve come through the worst of it now. We’ve found a decent place to live and we’ve sweet little two-year-old twins, but we haven’t had sex for a year. The last two times we did it I suffered from premature ejaculation.
Now my wife’s turned cold-hearted against me. I don’t get a kiss or a hug, not even a cuddle in bed. I checked through her phone and I see that some guy is messaging her and she isn’t discouraging him.
I love her so much but I feel like packing and walking away.