I had sex with a girl I’d only just met. I know nothing about her but I can’t get her out of my mind.
The worst thing is, I have a girlfriend already. We’re both 29 and we’ve been together eight years. We’ve got to the point where we talk about marriage and children. I go along with the conversations but in reality I’m not sure I’m ready for the next step.
My mates are all single and I feel I may be missing out on something myself. I’ve always been faithful until last weekend when I was out celebrating my football club winning a local cup.
The team hit the town and we were all pretty hammered but then we got separated. I thought my mates might have gone to a hotel where they have a disco on a Friday night.
The bar was really quiet and my friends weren’t there but I bought a drink and stood at the bar. This lovely girl was sitting at the bar too. She told me she was staying in the hotel because she was visiting her sister who’d just had a baby.
We had more drinks together before we went up to her room. In just a few hours, we were having sex and it was out of this world.
I’m really starting to feel that I should break up with my girlfriend to try the single life again. I’ve located this girl on Facebook as I knew her name. She’s 26 - but has a boyfriend. I’d like to message her but this could be a bad idea. What should I do?