Where to start? I met a man that I was sexual attracted to, and then as we got to know each other I enjoyed him mentally as well.
But, let’s just get to the point. We were intimate and it was great. We dated, talked, walks in the park and then it happened. We had only been intimate once and then he hit me with the high school version of, “If you like me, then you would give me oral sex.”
WHAT???? That was my first reply, and then he started to explain that he enjoyed that and thinks that he should get it if I like him.
Well, I do like him, but I am a bit older then he (I’m 32 years old), but I am not about to play games. I don’t know him well enough to just do that. And, just because everyone else he has dealt with does it on the first date or first sexual encounter has nothing to do with me.
I just want to know is this what the world is coming to, that in order to let a man know you want him or you’re interested in him that you must blow him? If so, then why isn’t it that men don’t just give women oral sex to say, “Hey, I like you and I think we could be something?”
Please advise me as to what I need to do or what I may be doing wrong that keeps me single?