What does it mean to be a virgin in 2013?
I am a newlywed husband and I want to express my concern and hurt I felt when I found out the wife I thought was a virgin wasn't. She told me she was a virgin prior to our getting married. However, I recently found out she's had anal sex.
I was very shocked and disappointed. I asked her if that means she wasn't a virgin when we got married, and she insisted she was. I feel as if the integrity of our relationship foundation has been compromised.
What do you think I should do? Everything I though was true just isn't anymore. I feel devastated. How do I move on?