If you have any doubt about your lady’s honesty, these five indicators are the ones to look out for.
honesty, these five indicators are the ones to look out for.
cheat if they're in a happy relationship - faithfulness is almost hardwired
into the female condition.But there is an exception. According to the Kinsey
Institute, 26% of married women cheat, or have had extra-marital sex once
before their 40th birthday. If you're questioning her loyalty, here's what to
1. She says your boep is really cute
from science, she doesn’t mean it. Adopt the following simple test: look into
her eyes as she speaks. If she hardly blinks while talking, then flutters her
eyelashes when she stops, she just lied to you. See? Shape up man.
2. She’s not interested in her birthday
of any kind are like Cup Finals to most women. But significant decade or
half-decade birthdays can trigger dangerous levels of navel-gazing, or worse,
wandering minds. At times like these, “she’ll think deeply about her love life,
and if it’s not going the way she planned, she might jump at the chance to
redress the balance with an affair”. There are two nights when every woman
wants a man in her bed: her birthday and New Year’s Eve. Leave her solo and
you’re giving her permission to cheat.
3. She’s been promoted but plays it down
to have projects and goals. So when she reaches a milestone in her career,
she’s likely to think: now what?” What’s more, women with fat salaries are more
likely to stray. A University of Washington study found that those who earned
upwards of R500 000 per annum were twice as likely to cheat. Make a big deal of
your other half’s achievements: she wants to feel as highly valued by you as
4. She’s moved in with you. And it’s fine.
good. Fine is too comfortable. Fine means an affair could be on the horizon.
Fine is bad. Hell, it doesn’t matter if moving in was her idea: the goalposts
have shifted. As soon as you become the wallpaper in her life, other men – at
work, at the gym – become more exotic. Make it clear that co-habiting is a
starting point rather than a final destination. And make sure you treat nights
in as you might have done date nights previously. Silent episodes in front of
the TV could result in her “interpreting this as you thinking she’s boring”.
Fine is not
5. She thinks you cheated first
suspects you’ve played away, it’s natural for her own self-control to be
weakened. The key to keeping her close is to confess when you’ve done wrong.
Research shows that 86% of couples who discuss one partner’s affair were still
together once they’d talked it over. If you can’t be good, be honest. And remember:
women excel at revenge.