I am a woman of 26 in East Africa and am getting married late this year.
When I was younger I had part of my clitoris cut away as is normal in my culture.
I’m sorry if this sounds a bit scientific and is a shock for you, but I’m fortunate that I have half of it left. I have found strategies to help me and I can orgasm, but it takes me some time and effort.
I am looking for a way that I can enjoy with my new husband – something that will make me come but won’t make him feel less manly, if you know what I mean.