THE PROMISE OF MARRIAGE This trick is the main and the common one Abuja guys use in getting rich babes. They realize most ladies that are ripe for marriage are eager to get married at all cost, and that is what they now work on. Some of them that are not even desperate are pressurized by friends and family members, so once they see any guy that keeps talking about marriage, they fall for them and even do all what they can to make the man stay with them. Some of these guys will tell them what they want to hear, especially issues related to marriage and spending the rest of their lives with them, unknown to the babes, they are just being trapped….
LIVE-IN-LOVER Another trick they use in getting some of these big and rich babes is by moving in with them. A lot of these guys claim to be in love with them, and the only way they can express the love is by living with them. Although this trick normally takes time, because its a gradual process, the first thing they do is trying to be nice to the lady, visiting her, at times pay some little bills, like DSTV, lights and other bills, after this step, they upgrade to coming to her house. And before they know what is happening, they have started living together, but don’t forget the lady will still be paying the house rent, feeding him and even paying the bills.
TOO POSSESSIVE A lot of these gold diggers are always over póssessive, because they won’t want to share the lady with any other man, even when they know they can’t marry her, but just playing with her emotion. In fact, some of them even monitor the ladies movements, listening to their conversations on the phone or even beat them if they suspect any thing. But some of the babes won’t want to leave the guy no matter the circumstance, they believe if the guy doesn’t love them, he wont be jealous of what she’s doing. So most of them believe that is part of the love the guy has for them, unfortunately, the situation often go out of hands. TAKE OVER THEIR PROPERTIES AND BUSINESSES Most of the babes that fall for this trick are the wealthy and older ones, they are always desperate and they don’t mind parting with anything they have once the guy looks serious and ready to settle down. Some of the guys who use this trick are also well to do, although they live on women and they spoil the ladies silly before they eventually strike.
LIVING OFF THEM Most guys collect money from babes in one way or the other, but these days, almost all the guys that engages in running after rich single babes for their money now ask them directly. They believe the babes are richer and because they can’t marry their money, they will want to do anything they can to get a man to marry them, not even mind if he the love is genuine or not. This trick is very common and most babes still fall victim of it. Some guys even collect money from these rich babes and spend it on some younger babes, which they will eventually get married to. A lot of them also trick them with joint account, life insurance and all kinds of things, just to fleece them of their money.
INTRODUCTION TO FAKE FAMILY MEMBERS This is the new and the latest trick in Abuja right now. Ever since some of the guys realized a lot of girls are getting use to their old old tricks, they decided to start some new tactics. Since they know that most girls always love to meet one or two of their relatives, they now introduce them to some friends claiming to be their family members, some of them actually introduce them to their siblings, and ask them to be demanding money or material things from the babes. And since the lady also believes she will soon be married into the family, will want to satisfy them, and will even go out of her way to please them. But most guys always introduce them to fake family member, so that by the time they are through with them, they won’t be able to trace them. It’s so bad to the extent that some of these babes even accommodate the family members.
FALSE CLAIMS Almost all the guys that engage in tricks that has been earlier stated don’t have jobs, they are always jobless and they live on women, but majority of them claim to be contractors. Obviously any young babe that meets a single guy who is a contractor would think, the guy is rich and he wont have to wait for any salary before he can pay his bills, and since they know that most babes love to be deceived, they tell them sweet things they will love to hear. But after some time, they will come up with a story on how the federal government owes them some millions and once they get the money, they will get their own apartment, buy new cars and even spoil the lady silly. The babes will believe them, and she will start spending all her money to maintain the relationship, thinking the guy will reciprocate some day.
SEPARATION FROM FAMILY & FRIENDS They claim they don’t like 3rd party in their relationship, so the lady must stop hanging out with her friends and families, if she really wants to settle down with him. This is another tactics that is used on most single and rich babes in Abuja right now. The guys try to disassociate the babes from talking or sharing her experience with friends and families, they also try as much as possible to keep an eye on the babes, at times they don’t allow them to go out alone, or attend family functions so that they won’t brainwash them.