5 reasons you'll regret getting married

5 reasons you'll regret getting married

Marriage is a very serious commitment which some do not realize the depth of until they are in it already. Love is one sure thing to make both people work on their marriage but even a healthy marriage can end in regret and eventually divorce.

Here are five sad but real reasons your marriage may regret your marriage:

1. If you married too young.

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When you fall in love, you fall fast and things might move at super speed. You may feel if you don't marry the person immediately, you will not survive. A fast beginning can have an even faster ending and you'll find you rushed into the marriage.

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2. If you are not over your ex.

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Loving someone else is inevitable, but moving on from your feelings is totally possible. If you are still hung up on your ex, it's unhealthy to let someone else into your life.

Deal with the feeling of your ex and move on from them else if your ex ever comes back to you when you are married, you may cheat on your new husband or worse, abandon him.

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3. If you have not been with anyone else.

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Sometimes you need to be able to compare and contrast certain things to know what's best for you. If you and your husband met in primary school and started dating since JSS1, it may become problematic.

Your bond will be strong but your preferences may change in men as you grow and you will hold unto your childhood sweetheart but the feeling of, 'I wonder how it feels to be with someone else,' will linger and may cause problems eventually.

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4. If you only got married because of a baby.

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Unplanned pregnancies put couples on the spot and they have to think fast and make their decision quick. If they keep the baby, they might feel pressured to get married so the baby grow up into a typical family setting.

However, a baby cannot sustain a marriage. If the couple were only messing about and then jump into marriage, they might find themselves resenting each other.

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5. If you knowingly settled.

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We all deserve someone who gives us butterflies and who we love like crazy (but in a sane way). If you only married someone because it was convenient, that is settling.

Your parents may be happy, he may be a good father and caring husband but if there is no love, it will be hard to work as team.

Source: Legit.ng

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