4 signs your current boyfriend is not your future husband
Marriage is a beautiful yet complicated union and needs to entered into carefully.
This is why they tell couples to take their time and chose a great spouse. This is because it involves living with someone and loving them for the rest of your life so you need someone who can make the journey very pleasurable for you.
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If you have a current boyfriend and you're wondering if he is husband material, here are four major signs he will not cross the finish line and be your husband:
1. You are not part of his future plan.
Every man, no matter how jobless he may be, has a future plan. That plan will involve where he sees himself and how he wants to work to get there.
If he sees himself with cars, a good job and all that jazz but you are missing, that's a big sign. Any serious person will factor you into the plan and if it doesn't work out, at least he tired. But if he does't add you to begin with, start packing your things before you are thrown out.
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2. Your ideals are very, very different.
If he wants a woman who stays at home to cook and clean and you want your to work and succeed in your career, both of you will clash.
When you date, it's easy to swallow things and tolerate them but most people never change and unless you want your marriage to be an endless argument, just find the nearest exit asap.
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3. He doesn't want to settle down soon.
If you are patient, then you can wait with him as he figures out when he is ready. However, if you are realistic, he may be ready but just not ready with you.
He might say he is not ready and you spend 10 years with him and you break up, then his next boo will be his bride in a matter of months. How would you feel? If it's not working, don't force it, just leave.
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4. You don't love him.
Love takes time but if it's been 5 years and you are just managing him, why bother? The both of you deserve to love someone and be loved by that person. Let him go and wait till you find someone who will make you feel butterflies and give you a happy ending.
Source: Legit.ng
