I hate that I’m doing this, but I kinda don’t have anyone to talk to about it. So some background info:
My girlfriend broke up with her ex of several years to be with me.
We are madly in love with each other (or so I thought).
We’ve been together for about a year.
So now for the problem:
I recently read my girlfriends conversation with her ex and I found out some things that shocked me.
1) She asked him if he thought they would get back together This obviously means she wants to.
2) She basically told him that she’s dating me cause I’m fun and that she doesn’t see us going far.
Now this confused me. She tells me all the time that she is madly in love with me. We’re planning on moving in together in a year. And occasionally she’ll tell me that she wants to spend the rest of her life with me. On the other hand, when we talk about moving in together, she’ll ask me “how do you know we’ll still be together”? But she’ll play this off as a joke.
What do I do? Do I tell her I read her texts? How do I do this? And do you think she’s just using me?
I know it’s hard to tell with this little info, but please help!